I remember that Carrie in "Sex and the City" said: you always need to invest your friendship, no matter how long you've been friends with each other. As time goes by, I can't agree with it any more.
I had some really good friends when i was at junior high school. I thought our friendship will last as well as how it was like for our long life, even if we don't meet each other all the time. But, the truth is...when we're in different periods, different places, we would meet different people and have different events with our own friends in our own lives. Those things make us farther from each other. Afterwards, when we found the common topics are less and less between us, we would gather together fewer and fewer. Do things always need to go this way?? I've no idea...... I thought there's already nothing i can do, cause as long as the distance was between us, then it will be there for ever, won't it??
Now, i am not sure who is my friend in deed in the place where i work. It's really kind of feeling....feeling of what?? a deep feeling of helpless. i guess it's my own problem. although i know it doesn't mean anything to think too much, i still can't helping thinking about that. Friendship is something hard to say or be understood, but can't do without it. sigh....just don't know what to do about this kind of situation. never mind it? i guess i can't make it, but i can't stand being nice to someone who always shuts me out, either.
Maybe you just don't fit to each other, don't leave your true feelings behind, face to them. change what you think you should make a change, do not ignore the people around you who really treat you nicely, return what they've given to you.......and then, you won't miss the real friends!
Don't forget....."INVEST YOUR FRIENDSHIP"
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